What is it about love that makes everyone want to be in it? Oh yes, it is the feeling you get when a person really cares about what you do or say. How much does a person really love you if they ignore you or try and tell you what to do all the time? I guess the love would be very shallow at that point. Where does listening play when you are in love? There is a lot of it because you want to know what that person says next. I haven’t seen a person who actually loves someone but doesn’t truly listen to them. When you are in love, then you would want to know everything the person you are with has to say. If you say you love someone, show it. It doesn’t take much to show how much you love someone, just open your ears and the person you are with will tell you what it is they like and take the initiative to surprise them with little things like a candle lit dinner. Just go out of your way to enjoy the company of your partner.
If you are fighting a lot in your relationship, just take a few minutes to do something nice to get the spark again. Sometimes people get in a position where they love their partner, but don’t know how to get back on track. It is all about taking the first step to do something nice for them. You will get them to open their eyes and you may be surprised in the reaction. If it doesn’t happen right away, do another nice act and eventually they will see you are trying. Talk to your partner and listen when they talk. Sometimes finding the love again can be difficult but if you truly loved that person once, you should be able to find those reasons again.
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